You like the idea of dating online particularly because you have so many options to choose from. However, sometimes, too many options can give you a bigger dilemma, particularly when you have a precise picture in your mind of what are you looking for.

The question is, are you too picky when trying to find a date on the internet? Everyone should be with someone that truly makes them feel good and happy, but it is also true that in many situations the people we expect less can surprise us most and this has nothing to do with the looks.

No one is telling you to settle for a frog instead of prince charming, but just one thing you could sleep on: in the event you are looking for someone tall and slim, you may have to settle just for the first part.

English men have, on average, 5ft 9ins height, which means they are quite tall. However, it is the weight the one to put pressure, as statistics indicate that approximately 46% of men in England are overweight. With other words, if you reject chubby persons, you reject nearly half of the men you could have dated.

The tons of criteria you have prepared for your ideal date may be far from accomplish, which is why in order to truly offer you a chance of finding the right person you should be focusing on fewer important parameters.

As you specify in your profile only the basic must haves, you can be sure that you have little chances to make some persons think they do not suit you and scare them away, which means you will have a wider range from where to choose. At that moment you could start being picky again.

 The reason why we keep analyzing various parts of the e-mails that online dating website users normally write is because these details can actually offer to their receivers more numerous and reliable information.

Therefore, you should know that there are normally three ways in which someone could decide to end a written message when approaching someone online:

1.Simple and plain – just the name. Whenever you receive an e-mail ending with the name of its sender, you should feel safe to appreciate you are dealing with someone who fairly assesses the importance and the nature of such communication means. That person does not pretend being too close to you or too distant. While psychologists seem to consider these persons as the most objective and reliable, unfortunately, few online daters currently appreciate such signatures, probably hoping for something more exciting.

2.Cool and laidback – the traditional “Cheers!”. “Cheers” works just like “Later”, “Bye”, “See ya” and so on. They all indicate that the one using them is actually trying to give the feeling of being cool and laidback, otherwise said invulnerable in emotional terms. Other details from her or his profile could determine you whether you pay importance to this aspect or not.

3.Too personal – “Love, Annie”. For a person you have never talked to before to sign an e-mail in this way is a clear signal you have been targeted by someone who wants to get very close to you the fastest way possible. Therefore, you should be running as fast as you can.

Besides all these, someone can, however, end a message in many other personalized ways. If you notice one of the three patterns, you are lucky. Otherwise, try to gather extra details and rely on your instincts before deciding how to answer back.