If you already have an image on who/how your future partner is going to be, you are heading for a disappointment. It’s not a good idea to set up high standards because no one is ever going to reach them and you are just going to go home at the end of the date thinking that ‘he just wasn’t Mr. Right’. I’m not saying you’re asking for the impossible, but I bet there isn’t a single person out there that would fit to your ideal image of the perfect man: he may have some features, but they are usually combined with other ones that you can’t stand.

If you think I’m not giving your Mr. Right a chance, let’s do an exercise. Take a piece of paper and a pen and describe Mr. Right: put down all his qualities, even his flaws (those which you probably find acceptable or cute), and write whatever important detail you have relating to him. You can even draw his picture if you feel inspired. When you are done, make a fake profile on a free dating site and see how many dates he gets. If you have a comment like ‘you are too good to be true’, then you know where this is going… Try another exercise. Imagine your Mr. Right being the main character in a love story. Is the character reliable? Believable? I doubt it. No one is perfect.

So instead of waiting for Mr. Right, why not settle with Mr. Right Now? It may not be the perfect man you always dreamed of, but he does have certain qualities that fit the profile (this is why you dated him). Don’t miss out on a good relationship just because the man you are dating is not perfect. I know you are a mature person who knows what she want out of life, but standards change all the time. You might wake up one day and realize that you actually had a potential partner that you dismissed for not being ‘Mr. Right’.

You need to understand that Mr. Right belongs to the fantasy world, while Mr. Right Now is actually real. This doesn’t mean you should settle for less, it only means that you should give it a try.

This tips are not written in stone tablet, you don’t have to follow them to the letters, they are just guidelines to give information on things that could occur on a date and how best to handle such thing. The author is not necessarily an expert on dating issues, however some of the tips are from his personal experience, experienced others have shared with him and the rest are just common sense.
To make the tips easy to read and also to update as we get  more feedback from other people who have very nice dating tips to share the tips are listed.  Here is the first list.

Top Dating Tips

• You must have a clear picture of the kind of man or woman you want in your life, don’t just accept any person that comes your way with thing you really do not like and hope they will change, it extremely difficult if not impossible to change habits of a grown man or woman.
• Most of us expect a good looking fit person to date, this is excellent but have a look in the mirror, are you all this things you are expecting from your date? If you are a bit overweight, it may be time to start a dieting regime or other activities that could help you get in shape.
• Though personal appearance is superficial, it matters a lot to a potential date, look your best. You don’t have to wear expensive clothing but clean well iron cloth will convey a good impression to your potential date.
• How do you hope to meet your date? are you going to use and online dating website like this one or do you prefer to meet potential dates at social gathering?  If you prefer the social occasions then make sure you get invited to the right parties, when you spot someone you like, find away of getting his or her attention and see how things happen.
• The kind of relationship you are looking for will depend on the kind of person you should aim to meet. If you are looking for a long term relationship, dating someone who is on holiday or working temporarily or is visiting your areas will not be a good idea, most likely this person will leave after while, you may have grown attached to him or her and saying good bye would be difficult.
• Once you meet the man or woman you are looking for, be careful not to be pushy, listen and observe what the person want in a date.
• Don’t allow yourself to be coaxed or cajoled into what you do not want, let your date know you like and dislikes.