Safe Dating Tips

Here’s our list of do’s and don’t for making the most of speed dating events and single’s parties

Do’s

Be yourself- you’ll have more fun and the more fun you’re having, the more attractive you’ll be to members of the opposite sex. People are far more likely to want to speak to you if you’re smiling and having a good time

Speak to everyone, even if you’re not initially attracted to someone doesn’t mean that you won’t find them interesting… or fancy them later on!

Remember that body language can be important- crossing your legs and folding your arms can give off the signal that you’re being defensive, whereas eye contact is a great way of conveying confidence and holding someone’s attention.

Relax, nerves can be a real turn off. Remember that everyone is in the same boat, and

Dont’s

Be too opinionated- having your own mind is good, but making a big deal about it isn’t. Avoid being drawn into a conversation about something controversial. Speed dating and singles nights aren’t the ideal places to have a political debate!

Make things up to impress someone, tempting as it maybe, if you like someone and want to see them again, you don’t want to spend your next date making up excuses.

Make negative comments about other people at the event. Even if you found someone boring or unattractive, being unpleasent is really unappealing.

Get drunk- have a few, but don’t get carried away. What might seem like brilliant dancing at the time, might be something you’ll regret the next day- along with your hangover

Go somewhere with a stranger- even if you’re sure they’re the love of your life, it’s best to get to know them first and arrange a date.