Spicing up your marriage may be one of the hardest things to achieve. You know this person intimately but there is nothing new that is coming to mind. The sex is good but its not great and it certainly is not wild but having a wild night once in a while, may be just what you need to spice it up. So what do you do? You aren’t into dressing up in costumes so what is something inconspicuous that can turn your dull bed into a rock star’s? Little sexual gestures.
What is LSG?
Little sexual gestures or LSG are sexual elements that can turn your partner on like kissing in different areas of the body, talking sensually, making noises, caressing and massages, biting and other similar gestures. You do not have to perform all of them at once because this may be a little too much, so perfect one at a time and you will notice how much more increasingly hotter your love life becomes.
How Do You Perform LSGs?
Obviously, when you hear biting in bed it doesn’t mean Mike Tyson biting or Twilight biting, just sweet and sensual nibbling. This is the same for all LSGs. You do not want to scream so intensely that your neighbors think that there is something horrible happening to you in your home. Think small, simple and sensual. Let your mind have a break and let your five senses take control. They will lead you in the right direction.
What’s the Trick?
The biggest trick to making regular sex hot and wild is letting your passion loose. Making love is not an obligation, it is a desire, a need. Not only can you fulfill your partner’s need for excitement but you can fulfill your own. By incorporating new techniques into your routine, your partner will become inspired and let loose as well. As soon as you feel completely comfortable touching areas that you would not normally touch with not only just your hands, you will see that you can create a more sensual and passionate night without too much effort.
Foreplay and talking dirty is a great way to get into the mood, but these little sexual gestures will keep the excitement flowing all throughout the night. Lead through these acts with raw emotion and desire. Leave your thoughts behind and have fun. Making love is to be enjoyed by you and your partner. In the end, you cannot do anything wrong but you can make your love life much more exciting by putting a little effort into it.
This article was written by Sensei Allison Schleck.